Colonel Anil Kaul, Vir Chakra, has a striking personality. In retirement, his body has lost some of its firmness, but behind his easy-going manner and charming smile is the steely mentality of a soldier. The patch over his lost right eye and a black leather casing on the stump of his left wrist add to his air of distinction. Meeting him recently at his ground floor flat in Gurgaon, Haryana, adjoining Delhi, was a pleasant experience as usual, and an educative one. He makes incisive obser